This saying was ground into my head for years and years by Gupa.
"Write it down" he would say.
So I did, several times, but apparently, he did not follow his own advice. Our family quarral yesterday could have been avoided if he had used quality communication and actually said what he meant to instead of assuming I understood.
He laughed when I told him to write it in HIS planner.
We sort of made up, but I am still crabby.
Still had to move out, but it was alright I guess.
We'll have to wait and so how long it stays "alright".